In the ancient Orient, flowers constituted a language - each symbolizing a thought or emotion. Lady Mary Wortley Montagu further developed the symbolic language of flowers by adding her additional interpretations, and she brought this vibrant language to the west in the 1600’s.
The secret language of flowers reached it’s highest peak in the west during the Victorian era, as people of this age were unable to always speak their minds clearly.
The ancient Greeks held the lily as a symbol of high eroticism and sexuality (the long pistil of the flower suggesting a phallus and the pollen symbolizing fertility) and masculinity.
In Greek lore the lily was formed from the breast milk of Hera. As the story goes, Zeus wanted Hercules (his son born from an extra-marital affair) to become a god. One way of doing this was to have him suckle at the breast of his wife, Hera. Zeus invoked the god of sleep, Somnus, to put Hera in a deep slumber while he enticed Hercules to suck at her bosom. He did this so vigorously that the milk overflowed. That which flowed heaven-wards became the Milky Way. The milk that flowed to the earth became the white lily.
Old wives tales suggest telling the sex of an unborn child by using a rose and a lily. All one need do is approach an expectant mother with a lily in one hand and a rose in the other. If the mother choses the rose, it will be a girl. If she picks the lily, it will be a boy (again, referencing the long pistil as a masculine feature).
Christians hold the lily as a symbol of chastity, innocence, purity and piety. In early Christan art the white lily is referred to as the “Madonna” as the flower is associated with the virgin Mary. It is typically depicted in a vase or held by Gabriel in Annunciation paintings.
The stem of the lily symbolizes Mary’s religious mind, the petals represent her virginity, the scent her divinity and the leaves signify her humility.
In Byzantium and France the lily is a symbol of royalty, prosperity and expanse. In fact, the Fleur-de-lys is sometimes thought of as a lily.
With its three petals, the lily is often considered a trinity symbol, holding the representation of three virtues: Charity, Hope & Faith.
In dreams the lily is a symbol of purity, virginity and innocence too. If the dreamer is looking at a lily it is a message of encouragement & chance of success in an endeavor looks very good. If one is dreaming of holding a lily, it indicates he/she is highly respected by others. If the dreamer is throwing or tossing a lily aside, it is a message that he/she has been abusing his/her power.
When we dream of lilies it usually means that the time is right to act upon a long-thought plan. Further, it indicates that we are coming into a fuller integration of ourselves and developing personal balance. It is also a sign that we are seeking rest, peace and tranquility.
In mystery (occult) teachings, we see the lily as a symbol of development, growth, progress, freedom, and also purity. Specifically, we see the lily in several Tarot cards, namely: The Magician card, Temperance card, and the Ace of Pentacles card.
In the language of the Tarot, the lily also holds symbolism of purity, innocence and fertility. Additionally, the lily symbolizes vulnerability, and the freedom to be ourselves, as well as allowing others to be as they are too. The lily is a symbolic flower of health and provision. In a reading, the lily can signal growth, development, and a quality of innocence in our lives. Depending on the surrounding cards, the lily may also indicate new relationships and births.